Today’s “Reading that Resonates” is from chapter 20, page 437, of the Handbook of Attachment.
Debra Zeifman & Cindy Hazan, summarize Dr. John Bowlby’s definition as such:
“Attachment bonds have four defining features: “proximity maintenance,” “separation distress,” “safe haven,” and “secure base.” ”
As I understand the terms, a paraphrase might be something like…