I started writing a blog post on expectations in relationships and quickly came to the realization that I am not entirely clear on the distinction between “boundaries” and “expectations.” i.e. If “I won’t allow someone to yell at me” is one of my boundaries, doesn’t that also imply that I have the expectation that your heartmate won’t yell at me?
Who originated the term boundaries in the context of relationship psychology?
It is particularly confusing given that many online experts seem to encourage living without expectations, but also encourage setting boundaries! Help!
Thanks to all in advance.